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HAPPY LABOUR DAY!

And that's when the fight started....

My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels. She asked, 'What's on TV?' I said, 'Dust.'

And that's when the fight started....

My wife was hinting about what she wanted for our upcoming anniversary. She said, 'I want something shiny that goes from 0 to 150 in about 3 seconds.' I bought her a scale. And that's when the fight started....

When I got home last night, my wife demanded that I take her some place expensive... So, I took her to a gas station. And that's when the fight started....

After retiring, I went to the Social Security office to apply for Social Security. The woman behind the counter asked me for my driver's license to verify my age. I looked in my pockets and realized I had left my wallet at home. I told the woman that I was very sorry, but I would have to go home and come back later. The woman said, 'Unbutton your shirt'. So I opened my shirt revealing my curly silver hair. She said, 'That silver hair on your chest is proof enough for me' and she processed my Social Security application. When I got home, I excitedly told my wife about my experience at the Social Security office.

She said, 'You should have dropped your pants. You might have gotten disability, too.'

And that's when the fight started....

My wife and I were sitting at a table at my high school reunion. I kept staring at a drunken lady swigging her drink as she sat alone at a nearby table. My wife asked, 'Do you know her?' 'Yes,' I sighed, 'She's my old girlfriend. I understand she took to drinking right after we split up those many years ago, and I hear she hasn't been sober since.' 'My God!' says my wife, 'Who would think a person could go on celebrating that long?'

And that's when the fight started....

I took my wife to a restaurant. The waiter, for some reason, took my order first. "I'll have the strip steak, medium rare, please." He said, "Aren't you worried about the mad cow?"

"Nah, she can order for herself." And that's when the fight started....

A woman is standing nude, looking in the bedroom mirror. She is not happy with what she sees and says to her husband, 'I feel horrible; I look old, fat and ugly. I really need you to pay me a compliment.'

The husband replies, 'Your eyesight's damn near perfect.'

And that's when the fight started....

I tried to talk my wife into buying a case of Miller Light for $14.95. Instead, she bought a jar of cold cream for $7.95.

I told her the beer would make her look better at night than the cold cream.

And that's when the fight started....

My wife asked me if a certain dress made her butt look big. I told her not as much as the dress she wore yesterday.

And that's when the fight started....

A man and a woman were asleep like two innocent babies. Suddenly, at 3 o'clock in the morning, a loud noise came from outside. The woman, bewildered, jumped up from the bed and yelled at the man 'Holy crap! That must be my husband!' So the man jumped out of the bed; scared and naked jumped out the window. He smashed himself on the ground, ran through a thorn bush and to his car as fast as he could go.

A few minutes later he returned and went up to the bedroom and screamed at the woman, 'I AM your husband!' The woman yelled back, 'Yeah, then why were you running?' And that's when the fight started....

Saturday morning I got up early, quietly dressed, made my lunch, grabbed the dog, and slipped quietly into the garage. I hooked up the boat up to the truck, and proceeded to back out into a torrential downpour. The wind was blowing 50mph, so I pulled back into the garage, turned on the radio, and discovered that the weather would be bad all day. I went back into the house, quietly undressed, and slipped back into bed. I cuddled up to my wife's back, now with a different anticipation, and whispered, 'The weather out there is terrible.'

My loving wife of 10 years replied, 'Can you believe my stupid husband is out fishing in that?' And that's when the fight started....

I asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?" It warmed my heart to see her face melt in sweet appreciation. "Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said. So I suggested, "How about the kitchen?" And that's when the fight started....

My wife and I are watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed.I turned to her and said, "Do you want to have sex?” "No," she answered. I then said, "Is that your final answer?" She didn't even look at me this time, simply saying "Yes."

So I said, "Then I'd like to phone a friend." And that's when the fight started....

AQSA.

TQ to Adzimi for sharing

//Webmod Posted by W. A. Amir Zal on Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Seawal 20 Ogos 1929 lagi, sekumpulan Yahudi ekstremis dari kumpulan Kachaneh (Kach) telah menyerbu masuk ke dalam kawasan Masjid al-Aqsa untuk menguasai tembok Buraq untuk ditukarkan menjadi "Kotet" (tembok meratap). Nasib baiklah kaum Muslimin yang pada waktu itu masih merupakan penduduk majoriti kota tersebut berjaya mematahkan tindakan tersebut dan sekali gus Berjaya mempertahankan masjid tersebut. Walau bagaimanapun harga yang terpaksa dibayar amat mahal. Pengganas Yahudi Kach yang dibantu oleh tentera British dari segi persenjataannya telah membunuh lebih kurang 338 rakyat Palestin dalam tempoh 15 hari. Kegagalan percubaan pertama itu tidak berakhir begitu sahaja. Selepas penubuhan negara Israel dengan restu League of Nations pada 14 Mei 1948, Zionis membuat persiapan yang lebih rapi untuk menawan kota tersebut.

Mufti Al-Aqsa, Sheikh Ikarama Sabri baru-baru ini mendedahkan bahawa masjid yang dimuliakan Allah s.w.t, Masjid Al- Aqsa di Baitulmaqdis mengalami kesan retak yang serius akibat kegiatan mengorek lubang di bawahnya oleh kumpulan Yahudi. Ikarama dipetik sebagai berkata oleh televisyen Al-Jazeera, keretakan paling jelas kelihatan pada tembok penanda garisan sempadan kawasan Haram al-Sharif, iaitu meliputi banyak tempat di Masjid Al-Aqsa dan Bandar Lama yang melingkunginya sejak diceroboh rejim Zionis. `Kesan keretakan besar dapat dilihat pada tembok terbabit kerana kerja-kerja mengorek dilakukan rejim Yahudi bertambah agresif sejak tahun 1967,” (iaitu setelah kekalahan negara-negara Arab kepada negara rejim Zionis pada peperangan Jun 1967 atau dikenali sebagai perang Enam Hari telah membuka ruang baru bagi rejim tersebut) kata mufti itu.

Menurut ramai dari kalangan kaum Yahudi, peperangan tersebut merupakan mukjizat bagi kaum Yahudi dan menunjukkan bahawa tuhan Yahweh sentiasa membantu mereka untuk membina kembali Haykal. Natijah daripada peperangan tersebut, tentera-tentera Zionis telah menyerbu masuk ke dalam Masjid al-Aqsa dan seterusnya menawan tembok Buraq dan ditukar menjadi Kotel. Semenjak tarikh tersebut sehingga kini tembok tersebut telah menjadi milik rejim Zionis, Masjid al-Aqsa terletak di bawah kekuasaan mereka dan sentiasa terdedah kepada bahaya. Yang lebih penting lagi, kota al-Quds selepas peristiwa tersebut telah mula mengalami proses pengYahudian.

Selepas sahaja Yahudi menduduki Quds Timur, mereka bertindak memusnahkan kawasan di sebelah barat yang bertentangan dengan tembok Masjid Al-Aqsa (Tembok Buraq atau Yahudi memanggilnya sebagai Tembok Ratapan). Ia merupakan satu kawasan yang mengandungi 135 buah rumah dan dua masjid. Mereka meratakan tanah di situ supaya menjadi satu kawasan lapang yang digunakan Yahudi untuk melakukan ibadat sekalipun tempat itu adalah tanah wakaf kepunyaan Islam. Yahudi mula berkempen secara fanatik untuk mengorek kawasan bawah tanah Masjid Al-Aqsa serta persekitarannya.

``Mereka menumpukan kawasan di sebelah barat dan selatan masjid untuk mencari sebarang bukti menyokong kewujudan Haykal. Tetapi sebaliknya mereka mendapati kesan peninggalan Islam yang jelas membuktikan kewujudan identiti Islam di situ. Mereka musnahkan bukti menyokong Islam tetapi meneruskan kerja-kerja keji itu.”

DON'T BE THE NEXT....

A Swiss woman has lost her job after her employers spotted she was using the Facebook website when she had claimed to be too ill to use a computer.

The unnamed woman was suffering a migraine and had told her employer, Nationale Suisse, she needed to lie in a darkened room.

The company said its discovery that she was also using Facebook destroyed its trust in her and prompted her sacking.

But the woman told a Swiss newspaper she was innocent.

The woman, who is from Basle, said she had been accessing the internet on her iPhone while in bed.

She said she did not believe the company's assertion that a colleague had inadvertently noticed her using Facebook, accusing it instead of spying on her.

She said the company had created a fictitious Facebook persona which become "friends" with her, allowing the company to monitor her online activity.

Her suspicions were raised when the "friend" suddenly disappeared after she was fired, the woman told 20 Minuten daily.

But the company says it followed a simple logic: that those who are well enough to use Facebook with a migraine are well enough to work with a migraine.

It is not the first time Facebook has been involved in a workplace controversy. Some companies have banned it altogether, while others have fired employees over statements they make about work while online.

HARAPAN PADAMU SUBUR KEMBALI

Wahai Tuhan ku yang Esa Bila kenangkan QaharMu Rasa gerun di hatiku Kerana takutkan seksaMu HambaMu rasa putus asa Siapakah dapat bersihkan diri Dari segala dosa yang memburu Setiap hari setiap ketika Tika mengenang GhafarMu Putus asa tiada lagi Semangatku pulih kembali Harapanku subur kembali Ujian menimpa menekan di jiwa Tak sanggup meneruskan perjuanganku MehnahMu itu penghapus dosaku Mengganti hukumanMu di akhirat Di waktu mengenang rahmatMu Terasa diri kurang bersyukur PadaMu harusku memohon Moga syukurku bertambah Alangkah susahnya Mendidik nafsuku Yang tidak dapat melihat kebenaranMu Bantulah hambaMu Dalam mendidik jiwaku ini

now listening to Memoir The Zikr, Nazrey Johani.

ZAMANG DULU-DULU

3 jejaka tampan ketika di UK

IKLAN JAWATAN KOSONG SURUHANJAYA PERKHIDMATAN NEGERI TERENGGANU

TQ to Kak Yani for the info...

//webmod

Dengan segala hormatnya merujuk kepada perkara tersebut di atas.

Sukacita dimaklumkan bahawa pihak Suruhanjaya Perkhidmatan Negeri Terengganu mempelawa rakyat Negeri Terengganu yang berkelayakan untuk mengisi kekosongan jawatan-jawatan berikut:

1. Pegawai Teknologi Maklumat Gred F41
2. Penolong Pegawai Teknologi Maklumat Gred F29
3. Penolong Pegawai Veterinar Gred G27
4. Penolong Pegawai Pertanian Gred G27
5. Pembantu Perikanan Gred G17

Kepada yang berminat bolehlah mengisi borang permohonan secara online dengan melayari laman web http://spn.terengganu.gov.my.

Tarikh tutup permohonan ialah pada 10 Mei 2009.

CONGRATS HADLYNOOR

MENCARI NAMA ANAK

Since korang keluar idea macam2 untuk nama anak sahak, lets try for Salha lak. Ni status kat muka buku dia..

"thinking of a nice and meaningful name. starts with E... F... any suggestion my Dear friends?"

505 Irniza...

BAIK PUNYA CILOK

cilok dari muka buku nurina

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5 {KBM} Geng Cakcibor Eleven FC 2,205.50
6 Raub FC 2,164.50
7 FC J'en ai marre 2,162.50
8 naz united 2,069.50
9 Korok FC 2,037.00
10 Rempit F.C 1,892.00
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13 P11 FC 1,615.00
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= 5 2ndBestAintThatBad Ahmad Harris Khaidzir 41 1486
= 6 OneTeamToRuleThemAll Ahmad Harris Khaidzir 40 1485
= 7 rejected by turtle Hadly Muhd 26 1413
= 8 redridinghood Muhammad Redha Md Hatta 35 1153
= 9 neu Ihsan Hasbullah 46 1148

ALLAH's Pharmacy! Amazing!

- A sliced Carrot looks like the human eye. The pupil, iris and radiating lines look just like the human eye... and YES, science now shows carrots greatly enhance blood flow to and function of the eyes.

- A Tomato has four chambers and is red. The heart has four chambers and is red. All o f the research shows tomatoes are loaded with lycopine and are indeed pure heart and blood food.

- Grapes hang in a cluster that has the shape of the heart. Each grape looks like a blood cell and all of the research today shows grapes are also profound heart and blood vitalizing food.

- A Walnut looks like a little brain, a left and right hemisphere, upper cerebrums and lower cerebellums. Even the wrinkles or folds on the nut are just like the neo-cortex. We now know walnuts help develop more than three (3) dozen neuron-transmitters for brain function.

- Kidney Beans actually heal and help maintain kidney function and yes, they look exactly like the human kidneys.

- Celery, Bok Choy, Rhubarb and many more look just like bones. These foods specifically target bone strength. Bones are 23% sodium and these foods are 23% sodium. If you don't have enough sodium in your diet, the body pulls it from the bones, thus making them weak. These foods replenish the skeletal needs of the body.

- Avocadoes, Eggplant and Pears target the health and function of the womb and cervix of the female - they look just like these organs. Today's research shows that when a woman eats one avocado a week, it balances hormones, sheds unwanted birth weight, and prevents cervical cancers. And how profound is this? It takes exactly nine (9) months to grow an avocado from blossom to ripened fruit. There are over 14,000 photolytic chemical constituents of nutrition in each one of these foods (modern science has only studied and named about 141 of them).

- Figs are full of seeds and hang in twos when they grow. Figs increase the mobility of male sperm and increase the numbers of Sperm as well to overcome male sterility.

- Sweet Potatoes look like the pancreas and actually balance the glycemic index of diabetics.

- Olives assist the health and function of the ovaries

- Oranges, Grapefruits, and other Citrus fruits look just like the mammary glands of the female and actually assist the health of the breasts and the movement of lymph in and out of the breasts.

- Onions look like the body's cells. Today's research shows onions help clear waste materials from all of the body cells. They even produce tears which wash the epithelial layers of the eyes. A working companion, Garlic, also helps eliminate waste materials and dangerous free radicals from the body.

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Update Sket

Aku tukar comment setting from full page to pop-up window. Kalau korang tak dapat nak view pop-out window tu, do the following.

1. click kat piranha bite marks
2. biasanya kat atas page browser korang akan keluar message on pop-out.
3. Click allow for this session ATAU allow for site taiping9495.blogspot.com
4. Acu cuba try test click butang piranha bite marks tu lagi sekali.

Aku akan tambah links kat tepi. So kalau ada sesapa yg berminat nak tambah link, please let me know. Cas? kosong rengget, kosong persen bunga. pree of cas.

Ta, cheriooo....

FROM MY MAILBOX

Just want to share from my mailbox.

At the age of 97 years and 4 months, Shigeaki Hinohara is one of the world's longest-serving physicians and educators. Hinohara's magic touch is legendary: Since 1941 he has been healing patients at St. Luke's International Hospital in Tokyo and teaching at St. Luke's College of Nursing. After World War II, he envisioned a world-class hospital and college springing from the ruins of Tokyo; thanks to his pioneering spirit and business savvy, the doctor turned these institutions into the nation's top medical facility and nursing school. Today he serves as chairman of the board of trustees at both organizations. Always willing to try new things, he has published around 150 books since his 75th birthday, including one "Living Long, Living Good" that has sold more than 1.2 million copies. As the founder of the New Elderly Movement, Hinohara encourages others to live a long and happy life, a quest in which no role model is better than the doctor himself.

Doctor Shigeaki Hinohara JUDIT KAWAGUCHI PHOTO

Energy comes from feeling good, not from eating well or sleeping a lot. We all remember how as children, when we were having fun, we often forgot to eat or sleep. I believe that we can keep that attitude as adults, too. It's best not to tire the body with too many rules such as lunchtime and bedtime.

All people who live long regardless of nationality, race or gender share one thing in common: None are overweight... For breakfast I drink coffee, a glass of milk and some orange juice with a tablespoon of olive oil in it.

Olive oil is great for the arteries and keeps my skin healthy. Lunch is milk and a few cookies, or nothing when I am too busy to eat. I never get hungry because I focus on my work.. Dinner is veggies, a bit of fish and rice, and,twice a week, 100 grams of lean meat..

Always plan ahead. My schedule book is already full until 2014, with lectures and my usual hospital work. In 2016 I'll have some fun, though: I plan to attend the Tokyo Olympics! There is no need to ever retire, but if one must, it should be a lot later than 65. The current retirement age was set at 65 half a century ago, when the average life-expectancy in Japan was 68 years and only 125 Japanese were over 100 years old. Today, Japanese women live to be around 86 and men 80, and we have 36,000 centenarians in our country. In 20 years we will have about 50,000 people over the age of 100...

Share what you know. I give 150 lectures a year, some for 100 elementary-school children, others for 4,500 business people. I usually speak for 60 to 90 minutes, standing, to stay strong.

When a doctor recommends you take a test or have some surgery, ask whether the doctor would suggest that his or her spouse or children go through such a procedure. Contrary to popular belief, doctors can't cure everyone. So why cause unnecessary pain with surgery I think music and animal therapy can help more than most doctors imagine.

To stay healthy, always take the stairs and carry your own stuff. I take two stairs at a time, to get my muscles moving.

My inspiration is Robert Browning's poem "Abt Vogler." My father used to read it to me. It encourages us to make big art, not small scribbles. It says to try to draw a circle so huge that there is no way we can finish it while we are alive. All we see is an arch; the rest is beyond our vision but it is there in the distance.

Pain is mysterious, and having fun is the best way to forget it. If a child has a toothache, and you start playing a game together, he or she immediately forgets the pain. Hospitals must cater to the basic need of patients: We all want to have fun. At St. Luke's we have music and animal therapies, and art classes.

Don't be crazy about amassing material things. Remember: You don't know when your number is up, and you can't take it with you to the next place.

Hospitals must be designed and prepared for major disasters, and they must accept every patient who appears at their doors. We designed St.... Luke's so we can operate anywhere: in the basement, in the corridors, in the chapel. Most people thought I was crazy to prepare for a catastrophe, but on March 20, 1995, I was unfortunately proven right when members of the Aum Shinrikyu religious cult launched a terrorist attack in the Tokyo subway. We accepted 740 victims and in two hours figured out that it was sarin gas that had hit them. Sadly we lost one person, but we saved 739 lives.

Science alone can't cure or help people. Science lumps us all together, but illness is individual. Each person is unique, and diseases are connected to their hearts. To know the illness and help people, we need liberal and visual arts, not just medical ones.

Life is filled with incidents. On March 31, 1970, when I was 59 years old, I boarded the Yodogo, a flight from Tokyo to Fukuoka. It was a beautiful sunny morning, and as Mount Fuji came into sight, the plane was hijacked by the Japanese Communist league-Red Army Faction. I spent the next four dayshandcuffed to my seat in 40-degree heat. As a doctor, I looked at it all as an experiment and was amazed at how the body slowed down in a crisis.

Find a role model and aim to achieve even more than they could ever do. My father went to the United States in 1900 to study at DukeUniversity in North Carolina. He was a pioneer and one of my heroes. Later I found a few more life guides, and when I am stuck, I ask myself how they would deal with the problem.

It's wonderful to live long. Until one is 60 years old, it is easy to work for one's family and to achieve one's goals. But in our later years, we should strive to contribute to society. Since the age of 65, I have worked as a volunteer. I still put in 18 hours seven days a week and love every minute of it.

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NikFa on TV

Spotted our friend on the news yesterday.

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'Apa Ni?'

apa ni?
tanya si kecil
jari menunjuk
mata terkebil-kebil
ekspresi muka ingin tau
menunggu jawapan si tua

si ayah menjawab tenang
si kecil tidak puas
ditanya lagi
apa ni?

tumpuan ayah tertanggu
menonton kotak menyaksi sepak bola ditekan suaranya
garau bunyinya
si anak mendengar teliti

diulang soalan
apa ni?
mencari jawapan hakiki
si tua sudah angin
diguris hati si kecil

si kecil sekadar ingin tahu
hatinya suci bersih
tiada sengketa
walau dimarahi

mencari NAMA...

Assalamualaikum.. Alhamdulillah Sal selamat lahirkan baby boy ke-2 kami pada 31/3, tepat jam 0000 di Hospital Putrajaya.. (masa baby kuar, aku tengok jam 2349, 30/3.. tapi dah doctor tulis 31/3, ikut je lahh). So sekarang nie kami sedang mencari nama... kalau kengkawan ada nama yg elok, boleh di-recommend-kan. Antara yg sedang dipertimbangkan, Izhan (intelligence), Isyraf (ketinggian, Ashraf??).. boleh tolong confirm-kan maksud dua nama tu? Terima kasih in-advance atas idea-idea yg diberi... -ishak-

He did it again

Tumpang lalu ye...

This is how I spent a good 3.5hours at Kenyir Lake, last Sunday.
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USAHAWAN wanita berjaya, Datuk Azlina Che Abdullah yang juga Pengarah Urusan D'Navechee Beauty (Malaysia) Sdn. Bhd. muncul antara lapan finalis Anugerah Wanita Ikon 2008.

Beliau yang tersenarai sebagai 20 calon separuh akhir Wanita Ikon tahun lalu, kini bersaing merebut gelaran itu di samping tujuh wanita lain.

Antaranya, Ketua Pegawai Eksekutif Nineteen O One Sdn. Bhd. (1901), Tengku Rozidar Tengku Zainol Abidin; Pengarah Urusan Leesa Formula Sdn. Bhd., Che Muna Din dan Pengarah RZ Motivation Sdn. Bhd., Dr. Rosnani Sabtu.

Lain-lain finalis terdiri daripada Pengarah Urusan Idaman Pharma Sdn. Bhd., Farshila Emran; Pengarah Urusan NK Laboratories Sdn. Bhd., Norazah Khamis @ Atan; Pengarah Eksekutif Berani Guard Sdn. Bhd., Saliza Abdullah dan Presiden serta Ketua Pegawai Eksekutif Kumpulan Syarikat Eurofine, Ida Rahayu Md. Noor. {utusan online: baca selanjutnya}

Pagi di UMT

tq to kak yani 502 for sharing

CONGRATS TO KASNOR 505

As per kasnor sms

"Alhamdulillah, Anak ke 3 kami, lelaki, selamat dilahirkan pada 4:15am, 12 Mac 09."

Sumbangan anda diperlukan

Assalamu'alaikum kawan-kawan sekalian,

Seperti mana yang anda sedia maklum melalui entry dari Webmod bertajuk "Takziah Buat Fajare 503", salah seorang dari kawan kita iaitu saudara Fajar (ex-503) baru kehilangan anakanda kesayangannya pada hari Jumaat lepas di Glasgow, Scotland. More stories can be found at Fajar's blog here.

Pada awal pagi Jumaat lepas lebih kurang pukul 12:15am, aku baru aje terlelap tidur semasa aku dapat SMS ni dari Fajar,

"Nik, Amir dlm keadaan yg kritikal skrg..."

Aku yang selalu mengikuti kisah dugaan Fajar ni melalui blog dia sejak sekian lama, tiba-tiba terasa lain macam dengan SMS kali ni.

Pada sebelah malamnya pula, lebih kurang pukul 9:15pm masa aku kat dalam bas dari JB ke KL, aku dapat SMS ni pula;

"Salam Nik. Amir Yusof lebih disayangi dan kini pulang ke pangkuan-Nya jam 12:51pm waktu Glasgow. Al-Fatihah. Moga rohnya dicucuri rahmat sentiasa.

Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raji'uun.

Bermakna, aku dapat SMS tersebut dari Fajar lebih kurang 25minit selepas Amir Yusof menghembuskan nafasnya yang terakhir, kalau tak silap perkiraan aku. Sedih memang sedih. Mengenangkan kawan baik aku yang kehilangan anakandanya yang tersayang, dalam keadaan jauh dari keluarga, jauh dari kawan-kawan, tak dapat aku bayangkan keadaan sebenar yang dihadapi.

Mereka yang pernah berpeluang untuk menempuh hidup beberapa tahun di UK sebagai student, mesti tau sangat betapa susahnya dan besarnya dugaaan kat sana, especially dari segi kewangan. Berbekalkan kuasa batteri henpon aku yang dah 50% pada masa aku dapat SMS dari Fajar tu, aku contact kawan-kawan baik untuk memaklumkan berita sedih pasal Fajar. Aku call kawan2 bermula dengan Ihsan, DJ, Amyzaddin, Adzimi, Daus, dan beberapa kawan yang lain, lepas tu aku SMS pulak beberapa lagi kawan lain yang jauh dan dekat, until my handphone went dead sebab dah habis batteri.

My message to them was, "Geng, kawan kita dilanda musibah kat tempat orang. Dan aku tau financially he might be having some difficulties now. Selain dari doa dan al-Fatihah, apa kata kita cuba collect sumbangan sikit dari kawan2 tepeng semua melalui blog ni?", to which they all agreed. Alhamdulillah.

Thanks to DJ, I got Fajar's Maybank account number the next day.

So, to all reading this blog now, this is my message to you:

Walaupun aku tau dia terbeban dengan berbagai-bagai kesulitan kat sana, Fajar tak pernah sekali pun mintak tolong dari aku dalam hal ni sampailah ke saat ni. Habis-habis pun, dia akan SMS je kat aku untuk bagitau masalah yang dia hadapi, dengan harapan agar lebih banyak doa yang dipanjatkan. Beliau seorang yang tabah dan sangat susah nak dengar dia mintak tolong dari kawan-kawan. Itulah Fajar yang aku kenal sejak dari zaman kat Taiping lagi.

Sebagai salah seorang kawan baik kepada Fajar, aku dengan rasa rendah hati ingin meminta jasa baik kalian sahabat-sahabat semua untuk menghulurkan sedikit sebanyak bantuan kepada Fajar. The reason why I was looking for Fajar's account number is that korang semua boleh transfer directly to him, tak perlu lalu orang tengah langsung. Fajar juga takkan tau siapakah dermawan-dermawan di kalangan kita yang telah membantu sebab yang akan tertera pada account dia hanyalah jumlah yang dipindahkan.

To my knowledge, this is the best way we can direcly help Fajar yang mana hanya korang tau apa dan sebanyak mana yang korang telah sumbangkan. Bukankah sebaik-baik sedekah ialah yang mana tangan kanan memberi sedang tangan kiri tidak mengetahui? Semoga kehikhlasan kita semua akan sampai ke 'langit'.

Below is Fajar's Maybank account number (click image for larger view):

I'm sorry for I only have his Maybank's number. So, for those who do not have Maybank account and still wish to donate, hope you don't mind calling up your bank to ask how could you do the inter-bank transfer. Zaman canggih macam sekarang ni, you just need to ask.

Besarlah harapan aku kalau korang semua sudi membantu Fajar sedikit sebanyak. Juga, harap dapat di war-warkan kepada kawan-kawan lain yang jarang jengok blog kita ni supaya diorang tau dan at least, diorang boleh sedekahkan Al-Fatihah kepada Allahyarham Amir Yusof bin Nurul Fajar.

Dengan penuh rasa rendah diri, aku ucapkan berbanyak-banyak terima kasih kepada kalian para dermawan sekalian. Semoga keikhlasan korang semua akan diganjari Allah pahala yang tidak berbelah bahagi.

Minta mengundurkan diri, wassalamu'alaikum.

Yang benar,
Nik Fahusnaza (ex-503, Maresmart94/95)

KENANGAN DULU

"satu dua tiga empat, silalah jawab dengan cepat"

Pantun dua kerat dari Jigon semasa dia jadi MC perlawanan pantun antara kelas. Masa ni tgh tunggu jawapan dari salah sorang peserta (aku lupa kelas mana). Lepas pertandingan ni, cikgu buat rules MC tak boleh berpantun!!! hehehhehe

SIREH PULANG KE GANGGANG KEMBALI LAGI

Untuk sesiapa yang berminat menyertai Program Sireh Pulang ke Ganggang (SPKG) 2009 boleh lah 'lock your diary'.

Tarikh: 4 - 5 Julai 2009
Hari : Sabtu & Ahad
Tempat: Ada sebuah sekolah di kaki Bukit Larut, Taiping... dekat2 dengan the famous Taman Tasik Taiping

Tentative blom kompem lagi. Nanti aku updates kalau commitee dah agreed.

WHITE PAPER FROM ANSARA CAW. TAIPING

ACT bercadang untuk mengendalikan satu program untuk adik-adik kita di maktab. Kalau ada cadangan bley hantar kat laman actorg.net Bley upload white paper kat [sini]

Takziah buat Fajare 503

Setiap yang datang pastinya akan pergi.

Amir Yusuf bin Nurul Fajar telah menghembuskan nafas terakhir jam 12:51 tengah hari waktu Glasgow, Scotland (8:51 malam waktu Malaysia) pada 06.03.09, hari Jumaat.

Amir Yusuf tidak berpeluang untuk menghirup udara segar Glasgow. Sejak dilahirkan Amir Yusuf ditempatkan di wad kanak-kanak. Si kecil ini juga telah menjalani bermacam-macam pembedahan untuk membetulkan keadaanya.

Dari blog Fajar (http://www.fajaril.net/blog), setiap masa terluang Fajar & Isteri akan dihabiskan dengan melawat Amir di hospital. Korang boleh baca & tinggal pesanan kepada Fajar dengan melayari laman web di atas.

Aku dan Nik Fa sedang mengusahakan mencari akaun bank Fajar untuk sesiapa yang ingin menghulurkan bantuan kepada Fajar.

Al-Fatihah untuk Amir Yusuf bin Nurul Fajar. Isya Allah, Amir Yusuf akan menanti kita di pintu syurga...

Focus on Problems or Focus on Solutions?

This is an urban legend about US/Russia sending their asronaouts to outerspace.

When NASA began the launch of astronauts into space, they found out that the pens wouldn't workat zero gravity. (Ink won't flow down to the writing surface) In order to solve this problem, they hired Andersen Consulting (Accenture today). It took them one decade and 12 million dollars.They developed a pen that worked at zero gravity, upside down, under water, in practically any surface including crystal and in a temperature range from below freezing to over 300 degrees C.

The Russians used a pencil...

p/s: What you think about our "Outsmart Tunnel" ?

Smart Tunnel Facts

The "Stormwater Management and Road Tunnel" or "SMART Tunnel", is a storm drainage and road structure in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, a major national project in the country. It is the longest stormwater tunnel in South East Asia and second longest in Asia.The main objective of this tunnel is to solve the problem of flash floods in Kuala Lumpur and also to reduce traffic jams along Jalan Sungai Besi and Lok Yew flyover at Pudu during rush hour. There are two components of this tunnel, the stormwater tunnel and motorway tunnel.

It is the longest multi-purpose tunnel in the world. It begins at Kampung Berembang lake near Klang River at Ampang and ends at Taman Desa lake near Kerayong River at Salak South. The project is led by the government, including Malaysian Highway Authority (LLM) and the Department of Irrigation and Drainage Malaysia (Jabatan Pengairan dan Saliran = JPS) and also a company joint venture pact between Gamuda Berhad and Malaysian Mining Corporation Berhad (MMC). Construction of the tunnel began in 25 November 2003.

Two Herrenknecht's Tunnel Boring Machines (TBM) from Germany were used, including "Tuah" on north side and "Gemilang" on south side. On 11 December 2003, the 13.2 m diameter Mixshield TBM, Tuah, completed a 737 m section after 24 weeks of excavation. By the end of January 2004, Tuah would start a second drive covering a distance of 4.5 km to Kampung Berembang lake. A second TBM, Gemilang, has bored 350 m since getting underway in August 2004. Operated by Wayss & Freytag of Germany, this second Herrenknecht's TBM would drive 5.3 km in the south of the city to Taman Desa lake.

On 22 April 2006, the Gemilang's TBM completed digging on the south side at the Taman Desa outfall, while the Tuah's TBM completed digging in the Kampung Berembang area in 2 April 2007.The motorway sections on the SMART system was officially opened at 3:00PM, 14 May 2007, after multiple delays.[1] [2]Meanwhile, the stormwater sections on the SMART system began operations at the end of June 2007.

TECHNICAL SPECIFICATION

Stormwater tunnel

Construction cost: RM1,887 million (US$514.6 million)

Stormwater tunnel length: 9.7 km (6.0 mi)

Diameter: 13.2 m (43.3 ft) (outer diameter)

Tunnelling method: Tunnel Boring Machine (TBM) TBM type: Slurry shield

Motorway tunnel

Motorway tunnel length: 4 km (2.5 mi)

Structure type: Double Deck

Ingress and egress: 1.5 km (0.93 mi) at Jalan Sultan Ismail and Jalan Imbi

Length: 1.4 km (0.87 mi) at Jalan Tun Razak

Links: 1.6 km (1 mi) at Kuala Lumpur-Seremban Expressway

Links: City Centre near Kg. Pandan Roundabout KL-Seremban Expressway near Sungai Besi Airport

Rezeki trak penunda

KUALA LUMPUR: Banjir kilat di beberapa kawasan sekitar ibu kota kelmarin umpama `durian runtuh’ kepada pengusaha trak penunda apabila beratus kenderaan tenggelam dan rosak dalam kejadian itu terpaksa ditunda untuk dibaiki.Tinjauan Harian Metro semalam di Jalan Rahmat berhampiran Pusat Dagangan Dunia Putra (PWTC) mendapati deretan trak tunda menunggu pelanggan di luar parkir terbuka dan tertutup di kawasan yang teruk terjejas dalam banjir kilat kelmarin.Beberapa pengusaha trak penunda ketika ditemui berkata, mereka terpaksa bersaing sesama sendiri memujuk pemilik kereta mendapatkan khidmat mereka.Seorang pengusaha trak tunda, Jumadi Zakaria, 44, berkata walaupun banyak kenderaan tersadai, namun belum tentu boleh ditarik kerana kebanyakannya sudah `ditempah’ pesaing yang cepat menyedari peluang sejak berlakunya hujan lebat kelmarin.

“Kita berniaga seperti ini mengamalkan ‘siapa cepat dia dapat’. Ada antara pesaing mempunyai ‘kabel’ dengan pengusaha parkir menyebabkan mereka mendapat maklumat kenderaan tersadai dengan segera. “Bagi saya, itu semua rezeki dan persaingan merebut pelanggan setakat ini tidaklah sampai bergaduh,” katanya. Menurutnya, dia lebih mengutamakan membantu pemilik kenderaan kerana menganggap mereka ditimpa musibah dan perlu mengeluarkan kos bagi membaiki kenderaan.

Penunda, Raymond Kok, 41, pula menafikan mereka mengambil kesempatan dalam kepayahan pengguna kenderaan dengan mengenakan caj tinggi. Menurutnya, caj RM100 dikenakan untuk kerja menunda kenderaan sekitar bandar raya ini, manakala tambahan caj RM10 hingga RM20 akan dikenakan bagi setiap satu kilometer di luar Kuala Lumpur. “Ini harga dikenakan kebanyakan pengusaha trak penunda. Tidak tahulah jika ada pesaing sengaja meletakkan harga cekik darah. “Lagipun dalam keadaan bencana seperti banjir, banyak trak penunda akan berkampung di tempat yang berpotensi. Justeru, pemilik kenderaan boleh menolak pengusaha trak tunda yang meletakkan caj mahal dan boleh memilih sebaliknya,” katanya.

Jalan-Jalan Cari Makan Tepen Style... Kopitiam 333

Jalan-Jalan Cari Makan Tepen Style membawa anda ke Kopitiam 333, Jalan USJ 11.

Apa yang special pasal kedai ni? It's Malay kopitiam & nearby my current house.

Originally premis ni dah ada beberapa owner restoren mamak (bukan kopitiam) yg cuba untuk capture market terutama penghuni USJ 11. Owner saling berubah & sebelum Kopitiam 333 ni bertapak kat sini restoren kat sini 2-3 jugak berubah nama. Tapi hasilnya tetap sama. Tahun 2008 mungkin tahun gemilang utk restoren kat ni sebab ada World Cup di South Korea/Japan. Tapi tak tahan lama sebab MPSJ mengacau big screen kat kawasan lapang depan restoren ni.

Walaupun namanya Kopitiam tapi setting restoren ni macam restoren melayu. Meja & kerusi bukan macam oldtown kopitiam or White Cofee Kopitiam. Ada 2 partition, smoking & non smoking (air cond). Partition dia pakai kaca. Kawasan lapang seberang jalan Kopitiam 333 ni jual yong tau fu, mee bandung muar, char kuey tiaw & sate. Sebelum ni ada big screen setinggi 10 kaki (aku agak) tapi sekarang big screen tu diturunkan jadi 6 kaki (angkara MPSJ).

Aku pergi opening day Kopitiam 333, kelam kabut. Normallah kalau baru first day. Aku order kuey tiaw kung & ice blended mocha. Kalau tengok kat gambar tu byk kuey tiaw & almost jadi kuey tiaw basah. Rasa? biasa saja, isi (udang, ayam & sayur) kat dalamnya biasa saja. Time tu diorang charge aku 15 rengget.

Second time aku pergi ngan adik aku. Time aku pergi kali ni diorang buat order style kopitiam, diorang letak kertas menu kecik kat meja & isi sendiri apa yg kami nak. Aku perasan waiter diorang pun dah tukar attire dah. Pakai topi koboi, t-shirt with name tag & jeans. Aku order air sirap bandung & adik aku order mee hailam dan air jus epal susu. Air sirap & jus epal ok, tapi kuah hailam tu tak cukup pekat. Isi pun kurang. Adik aku cakap kedai ni 'paying for the rent rather than serving their customers'. dalam bahasa kita kedai ni kedai biasa saja, takde yang special. Time ni diorang cas kami 12 rengget.

Aku takde la fussy kalau makan sedap I am willing to pay more. Tapi kalau macam cukup syarat agak susah untuk aku nak kasi high rating.

Rating: 4/10 untuk biasa saja ambience, biasa saja makanan, agak luar biasa utk harga.

Gurau orang arab?

Kawan aku kata mungkin diorang bukanlah muslim, tp sama ada Arab non-muslim atau Yahudi. Allahua'lam...

Bush or Obama

Middle picture will haunt you...

B-Boy in JB town

Ahmad Harris turned 31 yesterday, and he celebrated it in JB town (he had to, no choice due to work requirement), together with two other blokes who are working there, namely Syahid a.k.a. martyr and me, yours truly.

We picked him up from the hotel, and drove towards Dataran Bandaraya JB, where we had steamboats and rojak buah and tauhu bakar. No cakes, because we all tak nak perut jadi makin boroi are on strict diet (muahahaha).

B-Boy with Syahid. Since there was no cake, so we had 31 sticks of steamboats (Actually, I did not really count. Belasah je)

B-Boy with EnAikAY. "Makan la, tunggu apa lagi?"

Syahid tersenyum kekenyangan...

HOLY LAND

Jangan mudah salah sangka...

Ada satu cerita, nak dengar tak? Gini ceritanya...

Ada seorang pompuan, masa tu dia sedang berhenti ditepi jalan sambil melihat keadaan keretanya yang kemek. hari dah nak masuk magrib, dia menjadi semakin resah. Dah lah jalan tu sempit, lampu jalan tak de pulak.

Tiba-tiba datang sebuah motosikal datang dari arah bertentangan. Dah lah tak pasang lampu, tak pakai topi keledar, laju pulak tu, macam pelesit. Perempuan tu apa lagi, dia terus menjerit " Hoi.. Babiiiiiiiii....... Slow sikit....."

Bila mendengar laungan perempuan tu, apa lagi, penunggang motosikal tu pun menoleh sambil menjerit balas,"Celaka... F**k you! Pu**mak kau!!!".." Bagerooo..."Sedap jer cakap aku babi...."

Selang beberapa saat, tiba-tiba terdengar satu dentuman yang kuat. Perempuan tadi berlari ke arah bunyi dentuman tersebut. Apabila sampai ke sana, kelihatan budak tu terpelanting dalam semak manakala motosikal nya remuk sama sekali. Rupa-rupanya, dia dah langar babi yang telah dilanggar oleh perempuan tadi.

Moral of the story: Pandu cermat, duit jimat, jiwa pun selamat…

HIGHER CRIME RATES NEAR YOU

Just be very mindful and careful nowadays with your mobile phone, laptop bag & handbag (for ladies)

They may hit your windscreen at the traffic light and there were few cases already last week reported in Shah Alam area. Kindly put your bag under your seat or in the boot.

Also, make sure you place your handphone safely. Do not put on the passenger seat beside you.

People made redundant and they are looking to make quick bucks. Please pass this message to your family, relatives & friends as precaution.

TQ

Hikmah menunda tindakan negatif

A nice article for our sharing...

Sepasang suami isteri yang sudah menikah selama 7 tahun dan memiliki 3 orang anak, terlibat dalam sebuah pertengkaran hebat. Begitu hebatnya pertengkaran mereka, sampai akhirnya mereka memutuskan untuk bercerai, mengakhiri kehidupan rumah tangga mereka secepat mungkin.

Mereka menemui seorang peguam, untuk melangsungkan perundingan pembahagian harta sepencarian di antara mereka, perundingan berlangsung lancar dan akhirnya sebagian besar masalah dapat diselesaikan, baik tanah, rumah, dan semua asset harta mereka dapat dibahagi dan mencapai kepuasan kedua belah pihak. Hanya satu hal tidak ditemukan jalan keluarnya, yaitu mengenai pembahagian anak [jangan lupa anak mereka tiga orang]. Baik si suami maupun si isteri, sama sama ingin mengasuh 2 anak, tidak ada yang mau mengalah, dan anak tidak mungkin dibelah dua seperti pada Zaman Nabi Sulaiman a.s. dulu. Akhirnya mereka menemui seorang tokoh agama, meminta nasihat bagaimana jalan keluar yang harus ditempuh.

Sang Imam akhirnya memberikan jalan keluar yang bijak, yaitu mereka diminta menunda perceraiannya selama satu tahun, mereka harus menambah satu orang anak selama satu tahun, bila Tuhan mengizinkan perceraian mereka, Tuhan akan memberikan tambahan satu anak, total menjadi 4 anak, sehingga mudah untuk dibahagi di antara mereka berdua. Kerana si suami dan si isteri sangat serius untuk bercerai, mereka mengambil keputusan berusaha keras untuk menambah anak, dan akhirnya mereka berhasil.

Setahun kemudian, ketika Sang Imam berjalan jalan, beliau bertemu dengan pasangan suami isteri ini, sedang bergandingan tangan dengan mesra, sehingga Sang Imam bertanya, : "Apakah Kalian tidak berhasil menambah anak sehingga kalian batal bercerai?". Sang Suami lalu menjawab : "Tuhan maha pengasih, Dia memberikan kami tambahan anak, tapi sekaligus juga memberikan isyarat agar kami saling memaafkan dan saling mengasihi, kami memutuskan untuk tidak bercerai". "Bagaimana Tuhan memberikan isyaratNya?" , tanya Sang Imam. "Tuhan memberikan kami tambahan anak, bukan satu anak, tapi kembar".

Beberapa hikmah:

1. Menunda tindakan negatif sering bermanfaat, apalagi ketika seseorang sedang dikuasai emosi. Ada baiknya jika kita sedang marah kita menunda sesuatu yang ingin kita lakukan. Betapa banyak penghuni penjara yang menyesal: mengapa ketika marah memukuli isteri/anak/ dsb sampai tewas....

2. Mampu mengendalikan marah [emosi] adalah kunci kebaikan, sehingga nabi saw menekankan (لا تغضب) [jangan marah] kepada sahabatnya.

3. Kisah diatas menunjukkan kasih sayang Allah, tetapi ada yang lebih baik daripada kisah di atas yaitu pasangan suami isteri yang selalu berhasil meredam pertengkaran mereka. Mungkin keluar rumah meninggalkan isteri/suami yang marah untuk sebentar kemudian kembali membawa buah tangan/peralatan baru kesukaannya akan membuatnya tersenyum, meminta maaf dan berfikir betapa baiknya suaminya/isterinya.

4. Pertengkaran itu lumrah rumah tangga. Dengan pertengkaranlah membuat keharmonian semakin terasa nikmat. Orang bijaksana akan menikmati pertengkaran dan masa-masa setelahnya dengan tetap mengendalikan suasana agar tidak sampai keluar dari sunnah Nabi saw. Karena pertengkaran itu seperti api: sedikitnya bermanfaat tetapi besar dan luasnya membinasakan.

Artikel Mingguan dari Dr Asri

Saya mengambil masa yang panjang berfikir tentang tajuk poligami untuk ditulis di ruangan ini. Pasti lepas ini, mungkin ada wanita pembaca tulisan saya sejak sekian lama akan merajuk atau kurang senang. Pohon saya ingin menyentuh juga tajuk ini bagi berbicara dengan lojik feminis sekularis yang cuba menilai isu ini dengan mentaliti Barat.

Secara umumnya, masyarakat ‘Barat’ ini menganggap seseorang lelaki memiliki perempuan simpanan atau ‘mistress’ adalah perkara biasa. Bahkan menjadi trend di Barat ini untuk pasangan hidup bagaikan suami isteri tanpa perkahwinan yang diiktiraf. Bertukar-tukar atau menambah bilangan ‘mistress’ bukanlah satu keganjilan.

Namun pemikiran dan undang-undang mereka tidak menerima seseorang lelaki memiliki lebih dari satu isteri atau berpoligami. Poligami bagi mereka mempunyai unsur penghinaan terhadap wanita, atau unsur kerakusan nafsu lelaki. Sementara perempuan simpanan atau seks dengan wanita tanpa perkahwinan bukan satu penghinaan atau kerakusan nafsu.

Eksploitasi setiap inci alur tubuh wanita dalam media mereka juga adalah bagi mereka lambang kebebasan dan kemerdekaan wanita. Adapun wanita muslimah yang menutup auratnya dengan rela adalah lambang kezaliman atau penghalangan hak wanita.

Malang sekali, aliran ‘liberal melulu’ yang menghantui sesetengah pihak, termasuk di negara kita yang menonjolkan diri sebagai pejuang hak wanita, menelan cara fikir Barat ini lalu menjadikan isu poligami dan menutup aurat sebagai sasaran.

Berbalik kepada isu poligami, perkara yang selalu dibangkitkan adalah bahawa ia menafikan hak wanita atau merendahkan wanita. Padahal beza antara seorang isteri kedua, atau ketiga, atau keempat dengan seorang wanita simpanan begitu besar.

Selain dari soal haram dan halal yang dilihat pada neraca agama, seorang yang berstatus isteri mempunyai hak ke atas suaminya; hak nafkah, hak keturunan anak, hak keadilan pembahagian hari dan harta, hak dihormati dan disayangi, hak untuk tidak dipersiakan apabila jemu dan berbagai lagi.

Sementara seorang ‘mistress’ yang ‘dijamah’ dalam senyap atau terang, boleh ditinggalkan tanpa pesan apabila jemu dan diratah apabila bernafsu, tiada apa hak yang boleh dituntut atas kekudusan perkahwinan.

Mereka memandang sinis kepada poligami tapi menganggap fonomena biasa bagi perempuan simpanan. Poligami bagi mereka membawa ketidakadilan antara wanita. Mereka patut ditanya; apakah memiliki perempuan simpanan itu adil bagi wanita? Begitu juga, apakah hidup ‘berumahtangga’ tanpa kahwin itu penghormatan bagi wanita?

Ramai masyarakat Barat ini menyangka bahawa hanya Islam sahaja yang mengizinkan poligami. Padahal asalnya, seseorang lelaki Kristian diizinkan berkahwin sebanyak mana bilangan isteri yang dia suka, kerana Bible tidak menghadkan bilangan isteri. Hanya beberapa kurun kebalakangan ini gereja menghadkan bilangan isteri kepada satu.

Poligami juga diizinkan dalam Yahudi. Ini berdasarkan undang-undang Talmud, di mana Nabi Ibrahim isterinya tiga, Nabi Sulaiman isterinya seratus. Perlaksanaan poligami berterusan dalam Yahudi sehinggalah Rabai Gersom Ben Yehudah (960-1030M) mengeluarkan perintah menentangnya. Namun masyarakat Yahudi Sephardic yang hidup di kalangan umat Islam terus mengamalkannya sehingga tahun 1950. Namun di Barat, trend hidup pragmatik yang mereka cipta menggantikan agama.

Islam apabila membenarkan poligami, seperti biasa menetapkan dalam setiap perkara peraturan dan disiplinnya. Soal berlaku baik dan adil kepada isteri, bukan sahaja diwajibkan untuk mereka yang berpoligami, bahkan kepada sesiapa yang bermonogami juga wajib melakukan kebaikan dan keadilan kepada isterinya.

Jika ada kecuaian mereka yang berpoligami bukan bererti poligami itu buruk, tetapi sikap pelaksananya itu yang salah. Betapa banyak mereka yang monogami yang menzalimi isteri, tidak bertanggungjawab terhadap keluarga dan berbagai lagi. Apakah kerana tindakan salah mereka itu, maka monogami juga patut dilarang? Inilah mentaliti kelompok liberal yang tidak terurus pemikiran mereka.

Ramai isteri yang menghantar email kepada saya bahawa mereka tidak dapat terima suami mereka berpoligami. Ya, itu adalah perasaan yang dikongsi oleh kebanyakan wanita. Apatahlagi jika suami mereka itu tidak menunaikan tanggungjawab yang baik selama belum berpoligami pun.

Apabila Allah dan rasulNya mengizinkan poligami, pasti ia mempunyai hikmah yang tersendiri. Poligami adalah ubat yang dimakan di waktu perlu dan jangan memakannya jika anda tidak memerlukan. Poligami dalam sejarahnya, menyelamatkan wanita-wanita yang kehilangan suami seperti isteri tentera yang terkorban kerana umat. Mungkin mereka masih muda dan perlukan perlindungan. Jika diharapkan orang bujang, biasanya mereka mencari pasangan dara. Siapa yang akan mengambil tanggungjawab ini? Biasanya lelaki yang stabil dan matang mampu mengendalikan mereka. Mereka ini kebanyakan sudah berkahwin.

Saya lihat dalam negara kita, poligami dapat membantu wanita yang baru menganut Islam yang kadang-kala tiada orang bujang yang dapat menjaga mereka dengan baik.

Wanita sama seperti lelaki terdedah kepada sakit dan ketidakmampuan seks. Jika suami tidak mampu dari segi seks, isteri boleh menuntut dipisahkan perkahwinan. Jika isteri tidak bermampuan dari segi seks, amat tidak wajar wanita yang lemah dan sakit ditinggalkan begitu. Namun, dalam masa yang sama naluri suami juga hendaklah diraikan. Poligami boleh menyelesaikannya.

Begitu juga jika isteri tidak mampu melahirkan zuriat, apakah patut suami menceraikannya? Poligami sebagai penyelesaian keinginan kepada zuriat keturunan. Maka apabila Islam membenarkan poligami, ia adalah ubat.

Barangkali juga ada isteri yang tidak terdaya melayan kehendak suami yang ‘tinggi’ dalam seks. Poligami juga jalan keluar dari beban ini. Kadang-kala ada lelaki yang berwibawa yang memampukan dia memiliki lebih dari seorang isteri yang diberi keadilan yang rata.

Maka dalam sejarah Islam, poligami tokoh-tokoh telah membuahkan kebaikan ilmu, keluasan keluarga dan keturunan. Berbagai lagi hikmah poligami yang boleh disenarai panjang. Malang sekali, apabila golongan Pro-Barat atau ‘Islam-Liberal’ ini menyatakan tujuan mereka menentang pologami itu kerana hendak membela wanita, apakah pada mereka selain isteri pertama itu bukan wanita? Wanita itu, bukan isteri pertama sahaja, tetapi setiap yang berjantina wanita termasuk yang akan menjadi isteri kedua dan seterusnya. Perasaan dan kehendak mereka juga adalah tuntutan dan hak wanita yang perlu dihormati.

Pernah saya sebutkan bahawa kadang-kala hukum-hakam Islam boleh diumpamakan sebuah kedai yang menyediakan berbagai jenis ubat untuk semua jenis penyakit. Jangan kerana ada ubat yang dijual itu tidak bersesuaian dengan penyakit kita maka kita menganggap ubat tersebut mesti dihapuskan. Poligami adalah salah satu ubat bagi penyakit yang bersesuaian dengannya. Menghalang zina dan membantu wanita. Bagi yang tidak memerlukan ubat ini dia tidak disuruh meminumnya.

Poligami juga adalah jalan keluar kepada kehendak cinta di luar kawalan. Di zaman ini, untuk seseorang lelaki mendapatkan wanita secara haram, amatlah mudah. Namun jika ada lelaki yang ingin berkahwin sekalipun atas poligami yang membawanya menanggung berbagai risiko, saya rasa dia patut dihormati dan ada nilai tanggungjawab terhadap wanita.

Cuma malangnya, poligami ini jika digunakan oleh lelaki yang tidak bertanggungjawab sehingga mencemarkan institusi berkenaan. Apatahlagi golongan anti poligami ini hanya menonjolkan contoh-contoh buruk poligami dan melupai contoh-contoh baik yang banyak. Lelaki-lelaki yang baik dan berkemampuan patut tampil membawa contoh yang baik dalam perlaksanaan poligami. Sementara yang tidak berkemampuan dan ‘lemah’ kewibawaannya untuk adil, maka janganlah memakan ubat yang tidak diperuntukkan untuk anda.

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TRIP TO THE HOLY LAND

There are loads to 'story mory' about the trip, but its really personal. People always say, you have to try it yourself. I am out of superlative to describe what happened to me over the period of 12 days I was there.

What I can share with you are as follows:
1. Get your niat right. If you do that, Insya Allah, Allah will show the guidance for you whilst you are in the Holy Land.
2. Be generous in the Holy Land. Insya Allah you will be rewarded.
3. Plan your umrah during 2 months after Hajj. It will be a bit expensive than normal umrah but the masjid area is almost empty (compare to the time of Ramadhan and Hajj. There are 2 million ppl during Hajj & 5 million during Ramadhan in Makkah). I were lucky to have the privillage of doing my prayers and ibadah at Raudah, Masjid Nabawi every day & do my prayers in front of Kaabah. Do you know if you are praying inside Masjidil Haram, its sunat to look at Kaabah rather than staring on your sejadah>

More pictures will follow...

Gambar Tanah Suci

at bukit rahmah - believed the place of adam & hawa met for the first time on earth

Jabal-Uhud. The place where Muslim lost the war.

@ Masjid Quba

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